the wise forgive but do not forget

The stupid neither forgive nor forget; the naive forgive and forget; the wise forgive but do not forget. - Thomas Szasz

MeuExAmor contacted me the other day. I told him that I didn't think I wanted to continue communication with him. Even his cousin told me that it's probably not a good idea to visit.

I hold no hard feelings about what happened, and I really wish he has a good life.

I spent enough of my time on him forgetting and forgiving, and I don't want to go back to that.