Effers!

If you were going to be away from your home, your friends, your civilian job, and your family, wouldn't you want to try to spend as much time at home with them as you could?

Do you see any problem with that?

Most people wouldn't.

However.... my unit -- my home unit -- is telling me that I have to go on AT with them. Even though I won't be attached to them much longer. I swore that my new unit -- the one I'm deploying with -- told me that I didn't have to do AT with the band, and that I was "invited" to go on AT.

I just want to spend time with my family and get my affairs together.

Three weeks isn't enough.